When Making Music Together Feels Impossible
I’m not sure if it’s just me or if other Artist feel this way, but sometimes it feels nearly impossible to find someone who genuinely wants to create music together. Don’t get me wrong—I’ve been lucky enough to have some amazing collaborations with incredibly talented people, and those moments have been magical. But when it comes to finding someone local I can really build something with, it’s been a frustrating journey of dead ends and missed connections.
True Partnership
For me, music has always been about more than just creating sounds—it’s about connection. I’m always searching for that one person who’s just as committed, someone who wants to grow, experiment, and push boundaries together. I dream of a partnership where we’re both invested in making something meaningful and lasting, where the whole is greater than the sum of our individual parts. But for some reason, finding someone who’s genuinely serious, reliable, and equally driven has proven to be more challenging than I ever imagined.
All Talk, No Action
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve met people who seem excited at first, who talk big about their love for music and dreams of collaboration. Yet, when it comes down to putting in the work, they disappear. It’s as if the idea of being an Artist is more appealing to them than the reality of doing music. Maybe they’re caught up in the image of what being an Artist means, or maybe they just don’t realize the dedication it requires to actually make something worth listening to. Either way, it can feel like a major let down when you’re ready to put in the effort and they’re only halfway in.
Ego Gets in the Way
Another thing I’ve noticed is how many people seem so focused on themselves that they don’t really want to collaborate—they just want a sounding board. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for people expressing their unique style and individuality, but true collaboration requires compromise, open-mindedness, and a willingness to listen and grow together. When someone’s too wrapped up in their own vision to consider new ideas or share the spotlight, it’s hard to create something cohesive. Music is about synergy, and it just doesn’t work when one person’s ego overshadows the project.
Takes Time and Patience
The reality is, creating something meaningful in music isn’t just about jamming out for an hour or two—it’s a commitment. It takes time, patience, and a lot of trial and error. I think some people get intimidated by the grind or lose interest when things don’t instantly click. Others are quick to move on, thinking there’s always another “better” collaboration waiting around the corner. But the truth is, real growth and creation require sticking it out, learning together, and pushing through the rough patches.
Why I’m Still Hopeful
Despite the struggles, I’m not ready to give up on finding that perfect collaborator. I know that there are musically driven people out there who take their craft seriously and who genuinely want to create something new and exciting together. It might take time, patience, and maybe even a bit of luck, but I believe that finding that kind of connection is worth the effort. Because when you do find someone who’s equally passionate, the possibilities are endless.
Until then, I’ll keep creating, experimenting, and building on my own. And who knows? Maybe that right person will come along when I least expect it. If you’re reading this and you’re as committed to your craft as I am, hit me up. I’m always open to connecting with people who genuinely want to create something great together.
